Two empty cups awaited in silence
For an intense conversation
To fill them up !
Story behing this haiku ..
This happened when I was on a date with my childhood crush to whom I finally told my feelings after a long time.
I had imagined a bunch of stuff to talk about with her as a normal guy does but what followed was a nightmare.
She had no clue about what I was talking. Being it books , writing , movies , games , music or fashion trends.. she seemed like a child while talking .
And that day I noticed that looks are not the only thing that is important for me or any other person in this world to get attracted to opposite gender. What is inside his or her mind matters most !!
The first time I had this amazing girl in front of me and I didn’t feel that affection to her .. It was akward moment for both of us but somehow I managed it !!
- Have you ever been in these kind of situations or felt the same ?? Share your thoughts in comments .
I have experienced this, you think a person is like you because something you see or hear, and then you meet and realize that person is nothing like you.
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Exactly .. It’s why someone said that “Don’t judge a book by its cover.” 😃
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Most definitely, I have experienced this as well. And, I have stopped taking people at face value now 🙂
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Glad to hear that ..I know almost all people go through this phase at one point and it’s tatally worth it !! Thank you for stopping by and reading it 😃
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Great point. I happen to agree! It’s what’s on the inside that counts. I recently felt enamored by someone who turned out to be empty on the inside. It was sad and disappointing! 🙂
Funny how we build them up through our lens…then they show us who they actually are!
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Haha… Sometimes I laugh on myself when I remember how I was used to be earlier as a person and what choices I had made !! 😋 But really it’s as motivating as funny to keep going forward and see beyond the beauty of skin .. sometimes it’s just a few words that can turn you on !! 🙂
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That is so true😅😂 if my husband and I never spoke we would have 15yrs married 18yrs together 🤗🤗 he’s my best friend! 💞
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Oh jen !! I can’t imagine how beautiful it has been for you to end up being with someone who’s also your best friend.. that is the most amazing thing ! I can now just hope for that person to woo my world with her weirdness and smartness !😃
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😂lol- yes it has been a blessing and I know you WILL find that special someone! 🤗😉 who can resist a charmer of words??? 🙂😊
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Let’s just hope for the best !! I don’t want to ruin it before it happens 😂 And eh…a charmer of words .. I want to take that title with me 😋 Thank you jen 😃
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Than it’s yours! 😊 Lol I’m everywhere because I’m down and out from a knee injury…sometimes my window is my computer. If I find a writer that catches my mind; I can spend hours reading…🤓 yup I’m a nerd🤓
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Oh.. get well soon dear 😃 I’ve heard that doing something which actually makes us happy also gives the psychological benifit to heal fast !! And in your case, it’s reading then I’m sure you are going to heal pretty fast. Sorry if I sound like a nerd here but I am going to be a doctor and it’s like I’m a social nerd . I like intellectual talks and vulnerable conversations 😃
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Me too! We should do this often😊 its not like I’ll be… running around much … Lol😄
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Lol 😜 It’s already worked.. you see !😋 byw..yeah, We should do this often .. you are such a wonderful person .No wonder that your husband is truly lucky 😀 And I’m looking forward for some honest relationship tips from you 😜 May be through emails !😃
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You can email when ever and I’d be more than happy to throw some tips- just remember I’m a Scorpio; so my view sometimes goes against the norm..but always in good intent…😆
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Sure jen…even I’m a leo and well I’m an introverted leo (!!!!!!!) That sums up how I’m against the norm ! 😜
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Than I so look forward to tantalizing convos- I’m sure with both of our strong personalities; we can probably learn a thing or two from each other 🙃😏
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Yeah .. sure 👌👍
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The haiku first line itself became a six word story, saying all ..
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Thank you so much 😄
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Seems like you werent that lucky either bro.. 😛
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Bad luck yaar !! 😅 crush crush na raha , pyaar pyaar na raha 😂
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Are koi nahi, chalta hai itna toh! Jo realization hua uske karan thats what matters the most!
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Yup ! 😋 That’s what matters 👍😃
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